I’m Outraged, but Failing at Activism
I've spoken to many people about this feeling. The feeling I'm failing at activism. That I'm not doing enough. I'm plagued by feelings of guilt that I'm not helping, supporting, donating, championing, volunteering, marching ... enough. I get cross and disappointed at friends and peers who don't march. I'm struggling more and more to know the difference between self-care that must come first and self-care being used as an excuse to bail - in myself and other people. Some people said this feeling would diminish after becoming a parent. I'm only 3 months in and it's heightened. Sure, this might change but I doubt it.
Roxane Gay's reply is powerful and I've decided I'm going to pay attention to it. The full article is here
Roxanne has two suggestions: Consume less news and pick one issue at a time in which to invest your social-justice-oriented energy.
Do you relate to this? How do you balance trying to make the world better with the demands of an ordinary life? I'd love to hear your stories and advice...